A quiet mandap

What restraint looks like in a room that has historically been defined by abundance.

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A quiet mandap

What restraint looks like in a room that has historically been defined by abundance.

Kavita RaoJanuary 20264 min

There is a version of the mandap that is four pillars of marigold and nothing else. It is beautiful, and it is not what you see in most venues.

A four-pillar mandap at a Dallas temple. No cascades, no drape.
A four-pillar mandap at a Dallas temple. No cascades, no drape.

We've spent years convincing couples that less is not less. A restrained mandap puts the attention where it belongs: on the couple, the fire, the families seated at the edges.

“You can always add. You can never unsee a mandap that has been overbuilt.”
— Kavita Rao

If you are working with a decorator who is pushing you toward more, ask why. A good answer exists — a cavernous ballroom needs a bigger silhouette to hold the room. A less good answer sounds like a budget line being justified in real time.

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